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Whats with not being direct 7/7/2008
I've noticed some women, dont like to say whats on their
mind. Instead they become angry when men can't figure
out what their thinking. What is that about? Anybody?
9 Comments, 115 Views,
13 Votes
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Delete the message and move on... 10/1/2007
Rather than hurt someone's feelings by telling them
why you do not want them, just delete their message and move
on with your life. Have some respect for the feelings of
someone who was interested in you. I would rather not know
than be told why.
4 Comments, 53 Views,
16 Votes
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girls need to be straight up 8/23/2007
girls when they don't have the connection to the guy
they need to tell them straight up they are not interested.
I hated when girls keep on flirting with you and make you
think you have a chance
3 Comments, 56 Views,
9 Votes
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Amicably breakup..contradiction in termino? 5/1/2007
Do amicably break-ups exist?
Some time ago I went through the worst break-up (and yes
angelitas, you may comfort me if you wish ) and got 'confronted'
with good advice from firends and colleagues about amicable
break-ups.
Is there such thing? What does it say about the couple breaking
up? Do they still love each other maybe?
Reversely, they say love can turn to hate ...
2 Comments, 23 Views,
2 Votes
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The Real Question Is Why "No Thanks" 3/7/2007
Rejection is the hardest thing for us to deal with. Whats
even harder is being rejected and not knowing why. We have
all been rejected in some way or form. Can you remember that
time or times, and asking yourself why? How come we just
can't except it. It's usually because we know,
that we mean well and am confident in who we are. Being told
"No Thanks" is mind breaking, because we start ...
2 Comments, 255 Views,
21 Votes
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Don't Waste Each Others Time, Be Polite and Honest! 2/6/2007
I think it is much better to be diplomatic, tactful, fully
open and honest with people regarding attraction and whether
or not you wish to even continue to communicate.
It is better to tell either a lady or man that they seem like
a great person, but they are just not exactly what you are
looking for personally.
It is also good manners to wish them every success and all
the ...
2 Comments, 67 Views,
16 Votes
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Why? 4/29/2007
Is normal if a man likes a woman to show it to her. Also is normal
if she is not interested to say "NO, thanks".
But very often the men accept these words as "Please,
try again" and continue more urgent. And finaly when
the woman says emphatically NO, the men get angry.
Why, dear men? "No, thanks" mean exactly NO.
And no need to look for another meaning.
1 Comments, 29 Views,
9 Votes
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Telling it like it is... 9/8/2006
A number of times, people (mainly women) are even given
dating advice by their friends/elders that if they want
someone, play hard to get, and act uninterested. We are
also taught that people do play games like this, so often,
others persist in trying to get a "yes." But
how many "No"s do they have to hear to figure
out that no matter what they do, the answer is no?
1 Comments, 256 Views,
14 Votes
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RESPECT 7/1/2006
Lot's or girls and guys, or men and women, view each
others profiles on the site. And of course there comes a
time when contacts are made between them. Unfortunately,
everyone cannot be satisfied. Finding, and then connecting
with the person of their desire. Desire is a very powerful
emotion, and it sometimes gets the best of us. I have a few
words of advice to you all. "Desire itself, ...
1 Comments, 122 Views,
20 Votes
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Why is it that when I say no to someone they don't listen.. 2/6/2007
There's someone I was dating at one time and it didn't
seem like we had the chemistry to make it a long term relationship.
I had tried to end it and it took at least 7 times to get through.
I know we had physical attraction, but it takes more then
just that. Yeah we made the mistake of trying to stay just
friends, but it was too soon, because it ended up in disaster.We
kept bouncing back ...
0 Comments, 264 Views,
49 Votes
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sometimes no means more than no 6/26/2006
Once of the sweetest girls I've ever met, when asked
by a co-worker is she wanted a soft-drink responded NO!
Later i asked her why she didnt say No thank you. She told
me, she didnt want him getting any strange ideas.
Ha!
0 Comments, 81 Views,
12 Votes
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